Play this for fitting ambience while you read.
AlVan... I...
I've been trying to be as nice as I can to you, because I think everyone deserves that much. But in reality... I was frustrated. I wanted to be your friend. I really wanted you to fit in here. But the more I watched you, the more I realized... this isn't your place. You want attention, someone to talk to, a place where you can say something- anything- and people will respond.
But that is not how real life works. Even on the internet.
This wiki is a place where you make friends not through what you say, but through what you do. We're all striving for the same goal, trying to put in as much effort as we can, and learning to respect each other and become friends along the way. And if that's not what you're looking for, then you need to look somewhere else. That's the truth.
Yes, everyone here tends to criticize the work of people who are new- I remember constantly getting reminders about what does and doesn't match the wiki's policy. But the important thing is not the mistake, nor is it the criticism that comes after. What's important is that you learn from the mistake, that you take the advice to heart and go forth trying to make sure you don't repeat your history. If all you do is complain about how people always yell at you for falling out of line, what is there to gain? You are automatically destined to repeat your mistakes if you don't learn from them. And that is truly a waste.
Every rule here is put in place for a reason, and part of being a member of any community is that you follow them, no matter how ridiculous they may seem to you. The same applies here, on the internet. Part of why so many people "attacked" you is that you constantly broke these rules. Everyone is bound by the same code of honor; what gives you the right above everyone else to defy it? Mistakes like those deserve to be called out, as they were. Which brings me back to the above point: the important thing is that you learn why your actions were wrong and try not to repeat them, which you did not do. All because you wanted people to notice you, to talk to you and become your friend.
But, as stated above, that is not how this wiki works.
I know you are probably infuriated that I agree with them, but it needs to be said: when people work in groups, their true characters are revealed. You may have seen this playing on a sports team or working on a school project, but it applies as much here. Only when you work together with someone and learn of their true nature can you really decide if they are worthy of being your friend. And maybe right now, reading this, you think that I'm not worthy of being yours. But that is beside the point.
The bonds formed between friends who work together are infinitely stronger than those formed through idle banter. And that is where true happiness lies.
Please, go to Kingdom Hearts Wikia if you want to that badly. But I am here to tell you, from the bottom of my heart, that the community there will never make you truly happy. Only this one can do that.
Just grow up. You learn from your mistakes, you made lots but yet you did not learn. It is not our fault you didn't know what on Earth you're doing. OBVIOUSLY you'd be interested in the other site since they're all about community. We're about knowledge. We don't put down newcomers, we put them to the test on working under pressure. If you can't do that you probably aren't meant to be here. Thus you blew up under pressure, like so, and left to the other wiki. I won't apologize if I offended you, because this is real life.
Roxas 23:42, 28 October 2011 (UTC)
